Best Christmas Present Idea

I wanted to share this idea in case anyone else wants to do it. For Christmas I got my nephews each a bible that I thought they could relate to – an illustrated children’s one for 6-year-old Carsen, and an comic-book style Action Bible for 11-year-old Kaden.

Here is the key – I got them a few weeks ago P1090077 and have been reading through them and writing notes throughout them right on the pages. Writing things like what I think of something, questions about what they would do in that situation, questions or comments about what the passages say about God, or even just funny comments. I am hoping that as they read them, my notes will help them engage by dialoging with me and God, so they will learn to seek God in His Word.

I hope that they will start to search each page for messages written just for them, and eventually realize that God has so many more treasures, waiting to be discovered, personalized just for each of them. – For each of us.

So if you like that idea, do it for your kids. The seeds you sow will bring a mighty harvest.

And if you need an idea for other people in your life, check out my book. It talks about how to bring a harvest in your own life by getting God’s Word inside you. So many people have completely transformed their lives by uniting with God in His Word. Especially if the holidays are difficult for you, find comfort and peace with Jesus. Read more about it here.

Merry Christmas!!

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When I was young, I remember playing the old game of  Concentration with my grandmother. It looked just like this picture. You took turns flipping tiles and had to find the matching pieces. Anyone else remember when it was on tv? <Cough>, oh yeah, me neither.
I am grateful for my church. It has been a good place for me and I have developed many friendships there. As with any body, there are always growing pains. One thing discussed at our small group tonight was that our church lacks glue. We do not have an assimilation leader or team, and therefore it can be difficult for people to get connected in the church and with other people, especially for those who are hurting or shy.
Of course the best solution is to pray about this. But instead of waiting for a committee to enact legislation, maybe it would be better to take a systemic approach. What if people just started taking it upon themselves to look for one person in church that day who they could help or just get to know.
What if a pastor took a moment during church and said something like this:“Take a moment and look around you. Every person you see needs something and also has something to give. Some people need more, some have more to give, but everyone has and needs something. Your mission, just like a giant game of Concentration, is to find out where the pieces fit.”
This mission would be primarily for before or after church and during the week, as during church we should all be worshipping and listening to God together, but the rest of the time are we not called to find out where we each fit as cells in the body of Christ? It is only when we are all working together that we will truly fulfill our mission as the Church.
In heaven we will all know and be known, and we will all worship as one voice. In preparation for that, shouldn’t we be attempting to know and unite with each other? Instead of waiting for a committee to make a system, if even a handful of people just started getting to know more people and their needs, that would spread, and people would be helped and encouraged, and from there leaders would step forth and systems would be created. Jesus didn’t wave his hand and heal entire villages, He went person to person, and on that Rock He built His Church.
Jesus knows every detail about every person. He knows what is underneath every tile, and He knows where all the matching pieces are. If we ask Him to show us who we can help and who He wants us to get to know today, wouldn’t He do just that?
When you find your matching piece, you win. And the cool part is that the game continues. As dynamic beings, our tiles (needs, states of mind, ) morph as we grow. So once you find a matching person for a moment or season, keep your eyes open for the next one, and develop a great collection of friends as you go.
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Welcome, 2014

New Year’s is not usually a big deal for me.  It is just another number as time goes by. But this year, I felt a great sense of relief speckled with a bit of optimism at the calendar change.

2013 sucked. I am still tremendously thankful for many blessings throughout the year, but a few things were challenging and then one incredibly painful incident that transpired cast a dark shadow over the entire second half of the year.

And thinking back, the last six or seven years have been a very difficult season with a number of traumatic and painful events. So I was ready to be done with this valley.

Usually on New Years Day I am just looking forward to watching some terrific football games. But this year, on the morning of 1/1/14, I was walking around the house singing the Whoville Christmas song: large_grinch

Fah who For-aze

Dah who dor-aze

Welcome, welcome, 2014!

I have no idea what this year holds, but I am hoping that things will be different.

See, I am doing a new thing!
    Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
    and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43

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You Are Not Alone

I like to sit in different places at church. Last week, I sat near the front. After the first worship song when we were instructed to greet those around us, the man behind me asked if I was visiting.

That struck me because I have been attending this church for a few years. It is a fairly large church for our area, so it is not surprising that I had not previously met him, but what hit me was why he would assume I was a visitor.

After the service, my new friend John and I talked about it a bit more. I asked him if he thought I might be a visitor because he knew the people that normally sit in that area and I was not one of them. He agreed that yes, that was the case. Let me just insert here that I was in no way offended by what transpired, just quite curious about this dynamic, as was John as we analyzed it.

Here is one reason this touches me: There are some people who come to church in deep emotional or mental pain, with no physical signs of distress. Often these people will sit in the back by themselves. If the people in our church who are able to help others always sit in their usual spot with their regular friends in the front, how will we ever reach the ones in the back?

And yet another disclaimer: Not everyone who sits in the back is hurting, and not everyone who sits in the front is emotionally available to help, so it is not just about the physical location, but the point is actively watching for those in need and breaking our routine in order to be available. Some people like to sit in one particular spot for whatever reason, and that is fine. But what if, once in a while, we sit somewhere else? At the very least, we could make some new friends. At the most, we could makes someone’s day, or even save a life.

The message of the gospel is all about connection. We all need Jesus, and, like it or not, we need each other. The people that are feeling alone are not going to be the ones walking up to the front and introducing themselves to everyone. alone-1_0 Sometimes, this is because the enemy of our souls is telling them lies like “You deserve to be alone,” “Those people will only hurt you,” or just putting them in such a state of depression and confusion that they might not even be able to realize why they do not want the connection with other people that they truly desire deep down inside.

Sometimes the loneliest place can be in a crowd of people. Even when there is a greeting time, the standard handshake with those around you quickly becomes rote. What good is it if we never even know their names? We talk about mission trips to foreign lands but what about the mission field that walks in and out of our church building every week?

Sometimes we need to catch certain people at church, I get that. Things need to be coordinated and Sunday morning is when everyone is in the same place. But let us never be so busy doing church business that we forget to be about the business of the church – which is connection.

How do I know these things? Because I was one of those people. 10 years ago I walked into a church, terrified and in tremendous internal pain. I stood all by myself in the lobby as many people walked by, and I threatened God that if He was real and wanted me there, He had better let me know, otherwise I was walking out and never coming back. I was already planning my next suicide attempt in my head.

Many people will come to church on Christmas Eve who do not normally attend. If one hurting person comes in feeling alone and then leaves after the service still carrying that burden of disconnection, we have failed as the church. Not that we need to have a long conversation or get anyone to dump their purse in the sanctuary, but just let them know that someone cares.

If we are all on the lookout for someone not smiling, or tearing up, or just standing by themselves, and just walk up, find out their first name, and tell them that you are glad they are there with us, that could make a world of difference for them. Somehow, just let them know that they are welcome there and that they are not alone. Let’s not even ask if they are visiting for the first time, because that carries the connotation that they are an outsider. Make sure that they know that they are one of us. They might not be a Christian or go to a church, but they are a child of God, created in His image, and maybe no one ever explained that to them before.

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NES Guest Post

Hello all! I recently wrote a Christmas devotional guest post for my alma mater Northeastern Seminary’s blog, and they published it today.

Hop on over and take a look:

Be blessed! 🙂

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